Tips for finding Feeling of your Date
April 15, 2009 in relationships by Admin
There’s three approaches you can take to this:
1) The Direct Approach
This approach is simply asking the person how they feel about you and/or if they ever see things progressing beyond a friendship. The direct approach, although it may make you feel vulnerable, is the best way to get immediate satisfaction in knowing how the other person feels.2) The Hinting Approach
The hinting approach allows you to drop harmless “hints” or comments and see how the other person reacts. For example:“I really value our communication. If I was to ever get into a relationship, I hope the person is just like you – thoughtful, handsome, and kind.”
There are also hints you can do through actions – “friendly” extended goodbye hug; grabbing his arm when leading him someplace, etc.
3) The Friend Approach
The friend approach goes back to elementary and junior high days when a guy or girl would send their friend over to see if so-and-so liked them. It’s likely that you and this guy have some mutual friends. You may want to have one of those friends do some prodding on your behalf to get a general idea of where he sees things going. Now that friend may end up telling him that you like him and sent him/her to get his response. While you may not want that to happen, at least he’ll know you like him for more than a friend!
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